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Be Careful Who You Dine With!

“When you sit to dine with a ruler, note well what is before you, and put a knife to your throat if you are given to gluttony. Do not crave his delicacies, for that food is deceptive.” (Proverbs 23:1-3)

What is the first thing that usually happens when you enter a restaurant? Are you greeted by someone, or wait in lobby until someone come to greet you?

What about when you are seated? Does a server immediately comes to your table, or does the greeter tells you a server will be with you shortly?

When your server arrives how many menus are you given? All in one; or one for appetizers, one for main courses and one for desserts? Some restaurants give you one listing only drinks.

Tangie with spiritual mothers Sister Dickerson and Sister Copeland

Prior to COVID-19 pandemic Sister Dickerson, Sister Copeland and I had monthly scheduled  luncheons at various restaurants. Sometimes other Titus 2 sisters joined us. One thing in particular I noticed about them is they carefully read menus giving much thought to meal selection they were about to partake.

Not me, I often selected the first meal on the menu that appealed to my eyes. If it look good then it must taste good. Yes, you guessed it! My taste buds were not pleased with my rash selection. I can imagine God’s displeasure with us when we yield to sin giving no thought to what we willingly digest into the Temple of the Holy Spirit.

Sister Dickerson and Sister Copeland’s behavior, not words, taught me to stop making rash decisions, not only when dining out, but in life. They often compliment Brother Woods’ advice to me. I am now thriving in an area I previously gave no thought to and I am very careful who I dine with; not only as a Christian, but as the wife of a very respectable minister.

In an effort to obstruct our spiritual journey, Satan greets us appealing to the eyes, using his earthly employees and their selective menus based on our weaknesses. However, he does not cause us to sin but entices us to be drawn away by our own lustful desires. Once we yield to temptations, we birth our spiritual death but thank God for His grace and mercy and sacrificing His only son for remission of our sins giving us a way to repentance.

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Satan and his employees do not have power over us until we make a selection from his evil menu and take a bite from the appealing presentations to disobey commandments of God. Remember Adam and Eve. Just like my taste buds were not happy with my food choices God is not pleased with our choices to enjoy sin for a moment allowing it to flow through the veins of the Temple of the Holy Spirit. We should not treat our spiritual journey like the game show Jeopardy; risking our soul’s salvation for a moment of pleasure.  Be careful who you dine with!

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Beware of frenemies! In one of Brother Woods recent sermons, he gave warning to women to be careful when other women suddenly want to be friends and wanting to hang around them. Perhaps it is their avenue to our husbands. Of course, this does not apply to everyone but be careful who you dine with!

When we lived in another state many years ago a group of “Christian” women got together and had dinner at a local restaurant. I recall often being interrupted by a sister asking me general questions about Brother Woods (we were dating at the time). I did not give much thought at first but then she interrupted me while I was making an important point in a conversation with other sisters. I turned around and said you sure are asking a lot of questions about Brother Woods. She replied with everyone listening “I don’t see a ring on your finger.” Again, our spiritual journey is not a competition nor a game.

Sister in Christ! Really! She showed truth all Christians are not converted and her journey was just a game. Sadly, her action was displayed in front of Christian teenagers–the very ones who need Titus 2 spiritual mothers. Satan planned that attack perfectly using a weak-minded woman to do his bidding in the presence of impressionable young Christians. Be careful who you dine with!

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Let us remember to order daily from the spiritual menu which I recommend appetizers containing peas: Peace of Mind, Peace of Heart and Peace of Soul (from Facebook).

Now it is time to order the main course of squashing indifference, squashing hatred and squashing bullying (from Facebook). I added to the menu squashing gossip, insincerity, immodest apparels, tit for tat games, innuendos and all other behavior unbecoming a follower of Jesus.

From the dessert menu I suggest ordering the sweet taste of kindness, compassionate and genuine love for one another.

Remember to leave tips of watering and cultivating lives with patient, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control, manners, morals respect, class, integrity and LOVE.

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My final thought as the King’s daughter is to ensure my lifestyle remains as the SON light leading lost soul away from the dark world. How? Representing the LORD in words, thoughts, deeds and making disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the SON and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything He has commanded. (Matthew 28:19-20)

If it look good then it must taste good. No! That is what Satan wants us to believe. Do not wait to be greeted and served by him and false angels of light. Flee before making a rash decision to partake meals from his deadly menus.

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Conclusion, “Dear friends, let us love on another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. This is how God showed His love among us: He sent His one and only Son into the world that we might live through Him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins.” (I John 4:7-10)

“Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has every seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and His love is made complete in us. This is how we know that we live in Him and He in us: He has given us of His Spirit. And we have seen and testify that the Father has sent His Son to be the Savior of the world. If anyone acknowledges that Jesus is the Son of God, Go lives in them and they in God. (I John 11-15)


Christian Blogger, wife, mother of three adults and grandmother of one granddaughter

47 thoughts on “Be Careful Who You Dine With!

    1. Thank you for reading and commenting. I will pray your struggles cease soon with wise decisions. I could write a book on horrible consequences of rash (unwise) decisions I made in my past. I appreciate hearing everyone’s comments because I pray about what to write and encourage others who is dealing with specific issues. This is a reason I do not mind sharing personal experiences. Keeping you in prayer.

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  1. I love the picture of all three of you! What a lovely group! Yes let us always honor HIM in all we do and show love and compassion for one another. We are unified in CHRIST JESUS! May you feel loved today friend!

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    1. You are welcome. Thank you for reading and commenting. Sometimes I think we rather remain silent than hurting feelings. In reality, our silence hurts others more. We should love helping others save their soul’s salvation with book, chapter and verse. Afterward, refusal to repent will be between them and God on Judgment Day.

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  2. The wolf wearing a sheep creeped me out a bit.😨💀But otherwise, I love the obvious effort you put into this post!!Have a good day!(Also , I love Jeopardy, so thanks for the reference it helped me understand it more).

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    1. Thank you for reading and commenting. They are very loving mothers and represent the Lord in words, thoughts, and deeds. I am thankful to God for blessing me with spiritual mothers and in Alabama and in Florida. Have a great day.

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  3. Great advice Tangie and unfortunately way often too true. We do have to be careful. There is so excellent advice here. It is sad to me that we have to be so careful but we do. Have a blessed day with all your loved ones. ❤️💕Joni

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      1. You too my friend. Our pastor talks about this often as well. I did not know your husband was a pastor. I admire our pastors wife so much. I think it takes a strong supportive wife to walk along side her husband. Be blessed. Love 💕 Joni

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  4. This blog has definitely been confirmation for what I literally said to my teenage grand daughter, who is entering high school this year! The double animal depiction is vivid and makes the concept comes to life!

    Thank you!

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